Monday, February 9, 2015

From Henry Miller and Me

One of the treasures of Mike’s and my adventure is the ability to sit back whenever we please and pick up a book. No guilt about what we should be doing instead of just…reading.  

During our haunts of the used bookstores across America I have found a book of short stories by Henry Miller entitled Nights of Love and Laughter.

There is a paragraph that has so resonated with me that I have read it many times over. I have chosen to share it here on my blog because I believe it is important. I cannot help but think of Bernie, my neighbor in Ashburn, who was younger than I. He was living with a war injury when he died suddenly and possibly at the hands of incompetency at the VA hospital.

Henry Miller has captured in one paragraph something so compelling, so complicated, yet so simply put that all should read it…and weep.  There it is! and has been, since Miller wrote it over 75 years ago. 


“…the sirens scream their announcement of a truce. When peace comes it descends upon a world too exhausted to show any reaction except a dumb feeling of relief. The men at the helm who were spared the horrors of combat, now play their ignominious role in which greed and hatred rival one another for mastery. The men who bore the brunt of the struggle are too sickened and disgusted to show any desire to participate in the rearrangement of the world. All they ask is to be left alone to enjoy the luxury of the petty, workaday rhythm which once seemed so dull and barren. How different the new order would be if we could consult the veteran instead of the politician! But logic has it that we ordain innocent millions to slaughter one another, and when the sacrifice is completed, we authorize a handful of bigoted, ambitious men who have never known what it is to suffer to rearrange our lives. What chance has a lone individual to dissent when he has nothing to sanction his protest except his wounds? Who cares about wounds when the war is over? Get them out of sight, all these wounded and maimed and mutilated. Resume work! Take up life where you left off, those of you who are still strong and able! The dead will be given monuments; the mutilated will be pensioned off. Let’s get on -business as usual and no feeble sentimentality about the horrors of war.“




Bless you Bernie and thank you to all veterans, including you, Michael.

Saturday, February 7, 2015

TRAFFIC BEFORE THE CALM

California…hmmmm so far so good. I thought I would love it. But neither Mike nor I are getting any warm and fuzzies over it. When we were in Palm Springs I didn’t like the desert and both Mike and I weren't crazy about Palm Springs or any other towns in the area. They were either for the extremely wealthy or just too touristy (which means too much TRAFFIC and lots of very expensive junk!). However, we very much enjoyed our month in a fabulous house in Morongo Valley on the edge of the desert while there.

Next up, we went to San Diego for four days but we both had the flu so that time was a bust. Then up to LA where we stayed in a beautiful place, in a lovely, quiet neighborhood for 2 weeks. The first week I flew to Atlanta to spend some time with my daughter, Casey and granddaughter, Leah. It was so much fun! Leah, at almost 2 yrs, finally knows me as Nana! and, as busy as Casey always is, we managed to squeeze in a couple of fun things together.

So, back to LA where Mike was still sick but on the mend. We did a couple of joy rides (as I call our scenic pass throughs) and also did get to visit with our twin nephews, Shawn (and his 3 boys) & Dan Nier who live in Venice Beach. 

Did I mention the TRAFFIC? It is everywhere, all day long, every day! That drove us crazy!

Mike knew I felt cheated out of San Diego because we were sick so we went back to San Diego for a week. However, the TRAFFIC  there was awful there too. We drive from LA to San Diego, which was about 120 miles or 1.5 hours. It took us 4.5 hours! How do these people live like this? UGH!

The apartment we were in on our second go round to San Diego was preparing us for European travel which we hope to do this spring or summer. We had no microwave (very important when one is traveling), no dishwasher (no big deal, we got used to it, but REALLY need to buy some rubber gloves!) no elevator (made four trips to the car to load and unload, now add in stairs, UGH!) and also had an itsy- bitsy kitchen. In its listing it was labeled as 'old-fashioned but upgraded’ (NOT) and it was the most expensive place we’ve stayed to date.  However, we adapt easily as we both like “out of the box” places. (I just can’t get Mike to commit to that silver stream trailer! This one even has a pink flamingo on the front lawn. Gregory????)




Now we are settled into "The Glass House" in Ramona, CA for a week. So beautiful, so quiet, nice neighbors (very few) and great owners. This is the URL. Copy and paste the link then click on the main picture to scroll through the rest of pictures.


What you don’t see is what we see through these fabulous windows so here are some pics.

Rock Gardens


Mountains Galore
Front Yard looking down drive

Back yard goes straight up the side of a mountain

Getting my paints out again. That makes me very happy!